Laughter. Leadership. Life.
In the final minutes of the 2011 movie Source Code, the hero turns and smiles as he looks at a train carriage full of happy, laughing Chicago commuters.
“Look at that,” he says to his newly discovered love. “What?” she asks, seeing nothing apparently extraordinary.
“All that life,” he replies.
All that life. Expressed in all the laughter and the smiles. Nothing extraordinary at all. Except that normally that train carriage (no doubt like most commuter trains the world over) was filled with the same people, but without the laughter. In fact, throughout the movie we’ve witnessed hostility, fear, loathing, insecurity and anger simmering barely below the surface of those same lives in that same carriage.The scene that day on the train, however, offered an alternate reality for those same lives. (That’s not quite a plot spoiler, either.)
It showed that also just below the surface was just as much potential for laughter, fun, acceptance, and friendship. What the commuters had come to expect – and therefore effectively co-create through silent collaboration in the lowest common denominator of expectations – was the fear and anger. And yet, there was an alternative possibility. One that the simple experience of shared laughter set free that day.
“The artful use of humour typifies effective leadership,” observes Daniel Goleman in his EQ-based book The New Leaders (2002). “That doesn’t mean you should always avoid disagreements or conflicts. But the best leaders have a sense of when spending time airing grievances will be useful and when it will not.”
“The data linking leadership effectiveness to laughter come from hundreds of actual incidents … Take, for example, one study of executives interviewing for leadership positions, which looked at how often each candidate got a laugh during the interview and then tracked the candidates’ careers for two years to see which ones became stars. The finding was that outstanding leaders got the interviewer to laugh with them twice as often as the just-average executives. (The leaders’s success was defined by two elements: They were in the top third of bonuses reflecting financial performance, and they were rated as ‘excellent’ by 90 percent of their peers and bosses.)”
Goleman’s colleague, Fabio Sala, “found that top-performing leaders elicited laughter from their subordinates three times as often, on average, as did midperforming leaders. Being in a good mood, other research finds, helps people take in information effectively and respond nimbly and creatively. In other words, laughter is serious business.” (“Social intelligence and the biology of leadership” by Daniel Goleman and Richard Boyatzis, Harvard Business Review, September 2008).
“All that life.” Just beneath the surface of all those lives that commute to and from offices and workshops and schools and worksites is so much more rich potential - so much energy, creativity and contribution. So much discretionary effort that could be tapped and that people typically want to offer. If it’s valued and appreciated. If it’s encouraged. If it’s set free.
It’s kind of obvious, really. And yet clearly something’s not working when 82 percent of Australian workers identify themselves as being disengaged or disconnected at work (Gallup survey of 45,000 people reported in HR Leader, March 2011).
Effective leadership - leadership that engages and connects - requires a signficant but quite simple ongoing investment in relationship management. “Resonant leadership” is what Goleman calls it - leadership that is attuned to people’s moods and which encourages and generates positive energy between and among people who work together.
The everyday reality of the power of emotions is too easily forgotten or denied in the transactional, busy, and sometimes too-sterile environments many people work in. And so disengagement and disconnection become (costly) protective mechanisms.
Of course not every workplace situation is imbued with the potential for laughter. There’s as much genuinely serious work to be done as there are lighter moments – typically more. Which is even more reason to identify and capitalise upon those life-giving moments in which we can share a laugh.
Do you see the opportunities for a smile, a shared laugh, a celebration? Do you express (not just think about) happiness, appreciation, humour?
In Situational Leadership® we talk about the roles of both task and relationship behaviours. And sharing a laugh is a simple but powerful relationship behaviour. The good news is that there are plenty of everyday situations that offer the opportunity to share a laugh.
So laugh, lead and live. Because sharing and encouraging laughter is a vital part of leadership - a part that creates positive and productive workplace life.
“All that life” can be kept locked down or set free and harnessed for productive contributions. And that’s the task of the leader.



